As I sit and have my cup of coffee with Jesus on this beautiful morning, I am reflecting on a quote I read from Mrs. Charles Cowman’s book, “Streams in the Desert.” It says, “The meaning of trial is not only to test worthiness but to increase it; the Oak is not only tested by the storms, but it is toughened by them.”
When we are forced to deal with death of someone we care about and love, we are also forced to see the pain. This can be overwhelming, for love and pain often go hand in hand. You cannot love your spouse for seventy years, like a friend did, and not experience the pain of his passing. Pain and love go together. Another friend shared something she read about childbirth, that the pain of delivery goes away when that child is held by its parents for the first time.
Whatever trials we feel we are going through right now, we need to focus. Trials make us rethink the way we were living. They make us slow down, force us to spend more time with our family, and recognize the simple things of life. Trials can make us stronger, more creative, and, hopefully, more spiritual.
So, if we can embrace the trials we have and trust that they are making us stronger (like the oak), we grow closer to God. He is preparing us for a new earth, a new life, where pain and love will explode together, where the universe will finally be at peace, and all will come to be one with God.
So, when you embrace the pain of whatever trial you’re going through today, don’t ignore the love that came with that pain. Remember, the Cross brought about the Resurrection. You can handle it. You are not alone. HE sent the Holy Spirit to show you the way.
Have a blessed day and may the Spirit of God be with you.
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This is very inspirational
Buon Giorno Monsignor,
Ok, I’ll start off with the elephant in the room, I’m downright jealous; Assisi is on the top 3 places to visit from my long bucket list! Aside from my jealousy, your post today and actually since you’ve left Bakersfield have been filled with more love for Jesus AND have been relatable. I hate to say it, but being away from Bakersfield is uplifting & beneficial to your soul. Today’s message, particularly, these words,
“Pain and love go together…Trials make us rethink the way we were living. They make us slow down, force us to spend more time with our family, and recognize the simple things of life. Trials can make us stronger, more creative, and, hopefully, more spiritual.”
I know I share my life journey, many will wonder why I expose such intimacy, it’s to fulfill God’s assignment. If I can help just 1 individual who is struggling with depression and is on the cusp of committing suicide, I hope to talk them out of it. HIS love for us outweighs our pain. HE is making us stronger, stronger than we even thought we could be. Once we reach this understanding our blinders are removed. It is the simple things that truly matter; breaking bread amongst an incredible sunset with those we love, playing and loving our pets, holding hands and hugging those we love, taking long walks by ourselves, gardening and whatever brings us happiness.
We can not truly appreciate love and happiness without knowing deep pain. They go have in hand. I have and am in severe physical daily pain, being in the hospital over 7 times within 1 year takes a toll on my spirit, but HE has gifted me HIS armor; I am happier now than I’ve been. I appreciate everything around me, I’ve slowed down, simplified & sanctified everything a d everyone around.me.
Thank you for your messages and prayers while I was in the hospital,
Che la pace e l’amore ti circondino
Marta
Good Morning Father Craig , thank for your message today you and have a Blessed Day ♥️🙏🙏